Miscarriage

I don't like to be personal, but I need to just write words right now. Found out last night that my girlfriend had a miscarriage. I'm a wreck. I know it happens, and it does not mean that she will not get pregnant again, but I'm just not sure how to deal with it. I'm being very supportive since my girlfriend keeps crying so I am there for her. Anyone else ever dealt with this? Again, do you can ignore this, and I understand if my post is all over the place but I'm just numb right now.

 

I'm so sorry. I have no words for the pain and heartache you both are feeling right now. Condolences to you and her.

 

I’m so sorry.

 

Oh man. One word is too many and a hundred's not enough. Be kind to each other. You'll get through it. I send you both the love of the household.

 

Sorry. So hard. I know this sounds impossible, but just be what she needs you to be. A shoulder, a hug. Whatever. If she wants to talk, let her talk if she wants to sit silently, let her do that. Every woman handles it differently. Bottom line? Talk less, listen more.

 

I can’t imagine the grief. Sending thoughts your way.

 

My deepest condolences.

 

Sincere condolences.

My niece (age 39) is pregnant now and is freaking because her mom wants us all over for Thanksgiving. Niece is insisting we all sit outside.

 

I've been there, and there's no anguish like it. And that's all I'll say.

Don't be too proud to talk to someone. Best wishes.

 

Thanks for the kind words. She keeps crying.

She loves chocolate ice cream so I went to the store and bought some to cheer her up a bit. She gave me a smile for about half a second. Was worth it. We will get through this.