Need advice on ex-girlfriend

Was referring to the "not who I usually am" poster who started the famous divorce thread

 

If you really care about her, let her enjoy her life without your interference. If she wants you as part of it, be it as a friend or otherwise, that's her decision.

I strongly suggest you seek counseling to help you deal with your self-destructive behavior.

 

Hacksaw, maybe post a picture of Amelia to help us sort this one out.

 

Probably the worst part of it is not really knowing what the current situation is and what the future might hold.

Does she really have a boyfriend? Or, is she just using that as a shield to keep from getting hurt again?

If she does give you a second chance, are you willing to humble yourself to the point that she forgives you?

And, if she does, just how long will you be willing to play the whipped pup?

Who's to say that, now that you can't have her, the idea of having her back is really what's more appealing then she actually ever was?

A decisive move would be much better: Send her a ring box with dog poop in it. That way, you can move on and never look back.

 

How do you think he lost her in the first place, Oggie?

 

Buddy, she's just not that into you.

 

After reading his posts, I can't imagine why she wouldn't want him back. He sounds truly dapper.

 

The elephant in the room, Gene.

 

Hack, let me cut the b.s. and put things in perspective. Take it from someone who has been rejected more times than a hooker of Hunt's Point.
If you truly feel you made a mistake, talk to her face to face, lay it all out. If she accepts, then it's great.
If she doesn't accept, it's still great because then you know that you gave it a shot and it didn't work and it's time to move on.
Stop torturing yourself and good luck.

 

Or, you could have some sense and leave her the heck alone. She said she is in love with somebody else.

 

I have no intention of contacting her. I've said this once and I will say it again. This isn't the first time she has dated other people when we've broken up. Our relationship was never typical of the relationship most people have though. I was always the one who had to reach out and she seemed relieved when I did. So that's why I am fearful about sitting on the bench too long but at the same time I know no time in the near future is the right time. It's a fine line to walk and tough to figure it out. But right now, I'm just chillin.' Like I said, it's a concern but not something at the top of my list at the moment cause I know there is no point in worrying about it.

 

Glad you are leaving her be, but there is a difference between her dating someone else and being in love with someone else....unless she has a history of being full of shit.