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alleyallen
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Orangey Snicket said:boots said:Everything is not a joke. This is a good guy who is being treated like shirt inmy opinion because he came out at his own house party.R. Deep said:boots said:A married co-worker had a party Saturday night. And the biggest shock was that he picked that party to say he was gay. Definitely killed a festive mood. Now, people at the gig are treating him differently. While we won't be taking showers together after a game of handball anymore, I still consider him a friend.
I have been trying to defend his actions to a few coworkers but they just don't seem to understand that being gay is his choice. Am I wrong in defending a good friend?
So did you give him a reacharound or is that simply for your lady friend?
If you were defending your friend, you'd still let him loofa your back in the shower. And some would argue whether being gay is his choice or not.
Why are you even asking, though. Of course you should defend your good friend. If people bench and say the party was inappropriate, why not ask them how they would handle telling their friends and co-workers they were gay. Put them on their heels, boots.
I'd take that even further and ask them how they'd want to be treated if they had a party celebrating ANY life or social change, like getting a divorce, getting married, having a child, etc.