Good idea... or GREAT idea!

He's right.
If you pitch a more traditional idea now, she'll tell you she really didn't like last night's idea.

 

Hell, I'm going on six months and I've already learned. Although I have the best wife in the world (she may look at this sometime).

 

Rafferty isn't what you want here. If I may ...

YOU MAY NOW KISS THE BRIDE
HER MAMA BEAMS WITH PRIDE
A WONDROUS VOYAGE YOU WILL TAKE
LET'S ALL HEAD DOWN FOR SOME CAKE
HA HA!
RIGHT HERE ... ON CBS!

 

Ag

Agreed. Sounds like your treading on thin ice right now.

"Well, if that's what you really want to do, I guess we could." = No 'effin way, and if we do end up doing this, you'll pay for this for a long, long time.

 

I agree with the previous three. Don't do it. Find another idea. She's just doing it to appease you, not because its something she likes. It's the wedding. Make it a truly special day for her and pick something else.

 

What she really said was:

STUPID STUPID STUPID idea

 

Learn to pay attention to that look rather than what she actually says. It'll make for a much happier marriage.

 

She gets everything else. I get the stupid song. Our relationship is pretty simple.

 

McN: Seriously. Don't do this. You think she's fine with it, but then, six months down the road, when you all disagree, she'll say "YOU'RE the one who ruined our wedding with that STUPID song. And now you won't even do this one thing for me?"

And she'll keep using it for as long as you're married.

Don't. Do. It.

 

Doesn't sound right to me. "If that's what you really want to do, I guess ... " means dumb idea, hopefully he collects his common sense in time to figure this one out on his own. Don't do it. But that's just me.

 

I've got to say, I'm with the consensus here.
This is already half of an argument you're going to be having in 2016.

 

Truth is, F_B, if he's really dumb enough to think of this as "victory for my stupid idea," they won't make it anywhere near 2016...
In that case I'd put the over/under at 2012.