Good idea... or GREAT idea!

I'll put the over/under at 2008. Seriously.

Any guy who is THAT clueless has very little hope at the give-and-take that is involved.

 

Oy.

Here's the first mistake: 'You can pick the song!' did not mean you can pick the song.

It meant, 'Let's see how well you really know me, and whether you can pick a song that I would have picked.'

Your only move is to pick several songs, tell her each one means a lot to you, and you'd like her opinion.

Going with Rafferty pretty much guarantees that during her one shining moment, she's going to be thinking, 'I cannot believe I married this schmuck.'

 

In fact, it could down on his number of potentially shining moments.

 

wow, bet McNug is sorry he asked now. Tough love from the SportsJournalists.com relationship therapists.

Only trying to help, I'm sure. And you can throw out all the rest from the testosterone set, but I'd take the posts from the ladies on this thread to heart.

 

Nah, we'll be fine. I am about as low maintenance as you get. As long i get my chair and get left alone on the third thursday and third friday of march every year. I am fine.

She gets the limos, the flowers, the location, the meals, the rehearsal dinner, the tuxes, the dresses, the linens, the plates, the DJ, the cake, the registry and to spend money however she wants. I get the 20 second reception intro song. It's a pretty fair trade.

 

You keep on believing that, McNug.

Remember it the first time it comes up in an argument.

That's her first introduction as your wife. She doesn't want to be introduced that way. Respect her. Find something agreeable to BOTH of you, rather than loved by one and loathed by the other.

 

What IJAG said, and if you think it won't be brought up everytime the two of you argue . . . well, you have next-to-no understanding of how women fight/communicate/etc. with their S.Os.

 

Hey, how about "One Shining Moment"?
(Ducks)

 

Listen to IJAG and Sportschick... please!

 

It neither began, nor middled well, either.

 

Listen to the women, not to mention most of the men, on this thread. Rarely is SportsJournalists.com so unified on any one issue. If this many people all feel the same way when answering your initial question, it just might be for good reason.