Need advice: How do you deal with wife's affair, divorce?

Quoting in case anyone ever again doubts this poster is full of shit.

 

Just in case he ever decided to bail or deny it, but yeah, as they say in court, the facts are in evidence.

 

Good for you. In two years, Not will be there. I'm sure of it. And it's a great place to be I might add.

 

Every post that you see with my name or a few others, you want to make into a kiddie pissing match. GROW UP!!!! This is a real life grown up thread. If you're going to contribute something, great. If you're going to just insult people, move on. PLEASE!!!!!!!

 

If anything, send her a beautiful ring box....empty.

 

With a note ... signed, loverboy.

 

This is getting off track so I hope this will bring it back and close this portion on the thread about the subject.
I offered Not a suggestion which gave me closure. I don't advocate it for everyone. In fact, I even said the suggestion may not bring closure for him, but it did for me. Everything is not for everybody.
I think you have a problem in that I did something you may have thought about doing but couldn't. That and many other things is a difference between you and I. That's cool.
But what I truly resent is that your attitude that you are in a position to judge me, what I do, and how I feel, especially about an ex. You are not in that position.
I respect that you would've handled the situation differently but you don't know all of the facts which led to my giving her the gift. If you did, your feelings might be different.

 

And that's perfectly within your right. But don't attempt to judge anyone without knowing ALL of the facts.
Everyone is different. I've have some say I did the right thing and some say I did the wrong thing. But they know the facts. You don't. Therefore, they can give a pretty good opinion.
But whatever I did cleared my conscious and enabled me to move on with my life. And I'm feeling pretty good these days, much better than when I was with the ex.
Not needs to move on and leave her where she belongs, in the past.

 

'Twould be a sad day if a shit-boxer managed to shut down this thread.