Need advice: How do you deal with wife's affair, divorce?

Sweet dude.

 

Here's a glass of my favorite stuff, just for you, not. Well done.

 

Not, very happy for you and proud of the way you handled this and came through it. My mother has a great saying which has always helped me: If it's meant to be, it will. I feel like that's the case with your life. You were meant to deal with this drama, learn a lot about yourself and redevelop the parts of yourself that needed strengthening. Now you'll be a better man for the right one who WILL come along. Good luck!

 

I have to admit, it's been a long time since the majority of SportsJournalists.com members have rallied behind someone who was going through a personal crisis and for the most part, have been very positive. It's really nice to see. I'm sure Not appreciates it even more.

 

BTW Not, that was a terrific response you gave to the ex and her mom when they asked how you were doing.

A nice little extra shot across the bow.

 

You're not?

 

Outstanding news. Very happy for you.

 

I've been following this for a few months, and I must say that this is fantastic news. Congratulations, not.

I'm not sure how much I buy into the notion of "you'll find the one when you least expect it"...I've been expecting it less and less and still have yet to find any man remotely close to the one...but I do think you'll meet someone and you'll live (mostly) happily ever after. Good luck.

 

Kind of how I feel too. But the more time that passes, for some reason, the less I feel compelled to actively search for "the one" or even a reasonable facsimile.

 

Marriage isn't finding the right person, it's being the right person.

(Shamelessly ripped from a friend's Facebook page)

 

Love means never having to say you're sorry. ;D

 

Could be...though I think it's more finding the right person for you. Being the right person makes it sound like you might have to be something you're not.