Need advice on ex-girlfriend

So you're saying she's available?

 

Hacksaw -- please don't get your hopes up. The second she told you she was in love with someone else, your pursuit needed to end. I know you say that you're just contemplating reaching out to her in a year or two, but I don't think that's your intention. Please, let her be.

 

Let me clarify one point on this subject. From July of last year to January this year, we only talked like 1 time and since then we have talked 1 or two more times. So I didn't want you guys to get the idea that I am hounding her every day or something. I would never do that. Our last spat came in March and I haven't talked to her since except by e-mail once.

 

Hey, now.

 

The good news: that's funny.
The bad news: the women of sj now have you on blast.

 

You know what they can do if they can't take a joke?

Besides, that wasn't intended to put down women as much as it was intended to pump up beer. ;D

 

If he could do that, he wouldn't have needed a girlfriend.

 

They didn't before now?

 

Nah. Now it's me and him.

 

If you do have a drinking problem that's what you should be more worried about. I hope you're getting some help for that first. Worry about relationships later.

 

No I definitely don't have a drinking problem that has required therapy or anything. I don't drink at all anymore except on rare occasions at a special event or something. It was never a day-to-day issue. It was mainly she didn't want me to display that kind of behavior or choices if we were going to try to make a permanent relationship work. I know I have changed cause I went to the Richmond race a few weeks ago and didn't even drink but a beer or two and was back home at 11:30 pm. The old hacksaw would have been barking at the moon at 4 in the morning.