Oh no, not another relationship thread

Um, about, "Hey, it's Cradle. Call me back."

If she answers, say "Hey, let's go hang out. Want to go to dinner (no movie)?"

Bottom line is you already had casual sex with the girl, so keep it casual. Don't be awkward and it won't be awkward.

 

Guess I'm showing my age because there's a couple things about this story I don't get (aside from why people wanna share their personal crap on this site in the first place -this ain't exactly a Dr. Phil crowd):

1. How can you be afraid to ask out a girl that you've already hooked up with? Does sex now come before accepting a date on the levels of committment scale? I seem to remember that being the goal rather than the initial icebreaker when I was in school, if she was willing to screw you it was a damn solid assumption she'd also be up for a movie or beer sometime.

2. What's with this asking out by texting/facebook crap? That strikes me as a weaselly & timid way to do it. I'd think you'd make a far better impression if you picked up the phone and spoke to her with confidence. Hiding behind all this technology just enables wimpy instincts.

 

Welcome to the choir, Mr. Mmac.

 

While I wait for my friend to come over and discuss this, I'm going to throw a wrench into it for 90 percent of the posts on this thread. I just wanted to see how long the assumption went on.

At NO point did I say or imply we had sex. I said we hooked up. Is it really so assumed in this day and age? I think she was waaaaaayyy too drunk for sex, and I was way too drunk to even be thinking just that. Guess I'm just too good of a person, a different breed of guy or something. I've never been all or nothing, there's plenty of fun shit in between.

So, we hooked up. We fooled around. Then we cuddled for several hours. And that's about as specific as I'm going to be.

Does that change things for all the "you already fucked her, now you won't call her?" posts?

 

Yeah, since it's more blatant it wasn't a fuckfest.

How much more blatant do you have to get?

SHE IS INTO YOU. REALIZE THIS.

 

Not for me.

 

When did "we hooked up" start to mean anything OTHER than sex?

 

After our time, apparently.

 

You waited six pages to clarify that detail? I don't believe you. Sorry.

I like you, CR, but I don't like when people ask for advice and don't take it. It's very frustrating.

 

Kids these days.

 

Cut the shit; this ain't boots we're dealing with. Cut him some slack.

 

That's the thing. Everyone says she's really reserved and doesn't really get with guys very often. So either tequila was on my side, or I really am an idiot.

I didn't mean to revive a dying thread. I promise that I will call. Simple as that.