Oh no, not another relationship thread

It's the really reserved ones you gotta watch out for.

 

OK, I'm sorry, CR.

 

Nah, man. You don't have to be sorry. I just came here because this isn't something I can talk to my buddies back home, my frat brothers, my brother, or anyone else besides the one best girl friend about. I'm not gonna come on to tell a made-up story or make myself seem tight on a message board. Sorry if you're let down that I didn't have sex with her. I'm going to take the advice of everyone sans Flash and call her tomorrow.

 

I'm not let down. I actually think that bodes well for the both of you. Just confused why you wouldn't clarify that earlier, but it doesn't really matter.

 

Man up CR. Ask the girl out and have a great date.

 

Might as well slam your dick in a car door by this point because if you haven't called yet to set up a real date, if you're trying to hide behind a group, she'll sniff out that you're chickenshit. People are not stupid.

I asked out and dated only two women in my life. I married the second. I knew what I wanted, I didn't fuck around with 'should I call? should I wait?' We didn't have fucking texting and cell phones. I didn't hide behind a group like some insecure teenager. I knew what I wanted and got it. And I'm a happy guy for it.

Aw, fuck it. You don't have the stones to do it.

 

Moddy,

Who better to advise young, wayward journalists than old, wayward other journalists?

 

No, the point still stands. How can you be afraid to call a girl that was just willing to "cuddle" and whatever else with you for several hours?

 

Late to the party, but after trudging through 7 pages of shit, you need to go see the movie WHERE THE GUYS BALLS FINALLY FUCKING DROP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Godalmighty son....you sound like a whiny little bitch asking your girlfriend if you should call her......why she hasn't told you to nut-up and call her boggles the mind.

 

Here's the deal: You've already wasted several days asking yourself questions that can only be answered by acting -

- Will she go out with me?
- Should I call?
- Is she half a personality?
- What does her friend think?
- Blah, blah, blah, blah?

You will NEVER get answers to your questions by sitting on your ass and wondering about them.

You find out the answers when you act.

And if you get shot down, move on to the next woman.

You can't ever get back the time you waste, so quit worrying and start doing.

 

To me (and my friends), hooking up could mean anything from making out to having sex.

And CR, reading this thread is making my eyes and head hurt. Just f-ing call. Stop with the hemming and hawing and the shuffling feet-aw shucks "getting a group together" thing. Lack of confidence is NOT attractive.