Oh no, not another relationship thread

Phone call or a voice mail shows that you're putting more on the line.

A text is a way of covering your ass without doing much work.

Just my opinion.

 

I don't see a damned thing wrong with what Clever did. I told him early on to text. Frankly, I prefer it a this point of my life, and not just because my hearing's about shot.

 

Clever?

 

Shit. CR. I give far too much relationship advice to boys.

 

And I bet we never take it?

 

Rarely, and it's damned good advice! CR took mine though. I told him to text her in like my first post on this thread.

 

He did it .... a week late.

Edit: I'm late to this thread. In reading the whole thing, it felt like a week had passed.

 

If it had been two days later, I'd say the text would be acceptable.

But now we're going on a week later, and a call would be much better, IMO.

 

No, she's in a different sorority. These aren't her sisters giving me advice, I don't even know most of them. She lives in an apartment somewhere with one of her sisters.



I feel like now that I sent a text, and not knowing whether or not she got it, calling and leaving a voicemail or writing her on Facebook (currently the only method of contact I know is functioning) is way too pushy and uncomfortable, especially if she got the text and didn't want to say yes so just didn't reply. Am I wrong?

 

Depends on the girl, and generally any kind of contact is a good thing.

 

CR, the landslide vote said to call her. You chose to text her. You must now deal with the ramifications of that decision.