SJ.COM All-purpose dating thread

Jesus Christ ... I'm sorry, too.

Sorry for asking and sorry for trying to be a little bit happy. I'll go back to being miserable.

 

Must have been.

Because that definitely was not a two-way street.

 

Wow, this took a strange turn.

 

If a guy likes you, he'll make it happen. So be happy amac. Be upfront with him and tell him you are into him. Or ask if he's into you. Just make it happen.

 

Exactly.

Then again, I'm the worst when it comes to reading women and their feelings.

 

You shouldn't have to read someone. People just need to be upfront about feelings. I never had to wonder if Doc had feelings for me. He was completely up front and we are still up front with each other about everything.

If people didn't play mind games or try to read signs and just told someone they liked them, life would be so much easier.

 

I think I've had one girl tell me she liked me without me having to figure it out. We lasted just short of a week because she moved back to Texas to be with an ex.

 

That's what I consider playing games, KY.

 

Well, there were extenuating circumstances that led to her going back. Just some things we could never overcome and I didn't really want to fight over after some time.

 

Ah, see but that is a different situation, I believe. AMac's not in a relationship with this guy (I don't believe) but wants to be.

Clearly, when in a relationship, that is definitely something that can happen. My point was that if there isn't some tie other than friendship (or, potentially, wanting to get laid - and only that), most guys aren't going to just text or call to say "thinking of you," there is usually something more there.

I think you are more than right in being happy AMac and good luck. Let us know how it turns out.

 

What does it mean when someone files a restraining order against me ... someone?

 

You should ask poundsdwayne.