SJ.COM All-purpose dating thread

Good luck, Bodie.

So I got the first text of the night from her just a few minutes ago, wondering why I had disappeared on her friends list on Facebook and why she could no longer see my profile or anything. The text will not be replied to because she knows why I did what I did but she won't accept my answers.

She has already emailed one of my sisters on Facebook asking what's going on. I'm fed up with her playing stupid, and I'm fed up with her bringing my family into our little whatever you want to call it.

Why can't she realize that it's over and I don't want her back? What is it that makes her unable to see that?

And fittingly, Eamon's "Fuck It" has been playing in my mind all day.

 

If you don't play games, how are you supposed to know who's winning in the relationship?

 

The woman's always winning, Buck.

 

I'm working the Wildcat into my offense, though.

 

That won't get you a blumpkin, though.

 

Oh, I have my suspicions ...

 

Dare I ask what they are?

 

Absolutely true. No woman is out of your league. It also goes for women too. No man is out of your league either. Just got to give them the chance to meet you.

 

Because, in your quest to be 'Forever Mr. Nice Guy,' you weren't near as direct as you could have been. Stop being polite about and roundly tell her to fuck off.

 

Nice rose-coloured glasses. Son, I guarantee you ... there are women out of our league.

 

No, there are just women who won't be interested. Just as there are men who won't be interested in some women.

The point is that it is almost always better to try rather than just assume the person you are attracted to is not interested. Sometimes, somebody you would have assumed was out of your league will surprise you. Haven't you ever seen a couple and thought one person seemed to be out of the other one's league, but they were together anyway?

 

That just means the ugly one has a lot of money.