SJ.COM All-purpose dating thread

If you're trying to be classy and want to have some type of cordial relationship with her just say hi and leave it at that. No big, long catching up conversation (unless you really want to, of course), and I wouldn't bother buying her a drink.

If you just want to be an asshole you can just say she looked like she gained weight.

 

When you get there, just say hello, and leave it at that.

I repeat P_O's advice in saying to not buy her a drink. If she asks if you can buy her a drink, order one for yourself and get her a water. You owe nothing to her.

Enjoy yourself, be social and talk to other women who are going to be at the party -- even who aren't there for the party. Have a good time.

 

Just say hi and move on. The above fact is going to be the best revenge without you having to do anything more. She'll notice. And it will piss her off.

 

That's a great response/solution.

 

I can dole out great advice at the drop of a hat. Just can't help myself out at all.

 

I think we're all like that, my dear.

 

What was it I was told? Bone it like you own it?

Seriously, mustang, I think I'd take the same approach. Maybe except for the drink. If she screwed you over, let her sucker someone else into buying her a drink.

 

That's what SC told me a few months ago ...

And I think I told you a that a few weeks ago.

 

Just a general word of advice for any and everyone: If you've made the effort to learn the other person's last name before you fuck him or her, you're taking things entirely too seriously and need to gain some perspective. Notches in the belt are the only thing that matters.

 

Re: SJ dating Nation, I could use some input.

Second-most-overrated, actually. Most overrated: Drinking to forget.

 

Cutting is the best!

(I'm so emo.)

Seriously ... the hug? Only if it feels right. Don't force an awkward situation.

 

give her a fist bump... Don't miss.