SJ.COM All-purpose dating thread

But not without cause, right, KY? Have I steered you wrong?

 

Oh, you've never seen her ass.

(Actually, I'm with you here, IJAG. Without trust, what else is there?)

 

Doesn't matter. She could be the spawn of J.Lo and Kim Kardashian. Does. Not. Matter.

The ass she is is much larger than the ass she has.

 

Got me. It's not that I don't want something more serious, it's just hard. I think this will be the first winter where I stay within Colorado, which might make it easier.

 

Yes, she did.

 

And before those who know me snicker about me passing out any relationship advice: I know. I've been a terrible person in the past. I'm not perfect. It's something I've always disclosed up front, and something I've had to live down for the past several years.

But I also know that I wouldn't have trusted the me I was back then either.

And it cost me dearly in my last relationship.

 

if you don't want anything more, why are you complaining?

 

I walked in on a girl messin around on me not too long ago and IJAG advised me to cut the young lady out. I did and I feel better about it than if I had gone and talked to her, like she wanted me to.

 

Thing is, we've all done terrible things, IJAG, and hopefully, we've all learned from them, moved on and become much better people. Our past just helps prepare us for our future (and those who ignore the past are doomed to repeat it, etc.)

 

So here's a question to IJAG or basically anyone who cares to type a reply based on personal experience or something they saw in a movie or read in Cosmo or Men's Heatlh:

I usually have no trouble approaching a woman and making the move, getting her engaged in the conversation, slight acts of flirting (nothing major), just to get a feel of what level we're on. Problem is, with these women, it's usually happening where we share a common interest: summer slow pitch softball team, work at the same place, friend of a friend blah blah.

However, with this one, the one who comes in and out of my mind during the day sometimes, I can't for the life of me get in the zone. I've tried to be witty, usually very blunt or sarcastic and it works, but nothing progresses for some reason. I'm partly to blame, probably mainly to blame actually. The opportunity is there as I see her probably three times a day at the hotel (if I'm there), but I just hate doing this sort of thing on the clock. I live in a pretty damn small county and the odds of seeing her at City Market or the post office has got to be in favor, but alas, it hasn't.

Wow did I really just type this out.

 

Mad:

There are two probably explanations:

1.) She's nervous too.
2.) She's not feeling you.


Only way to find out: Ask her out. Even in a group setting. Just something.

 

Your abs probably weren't cut enough for her. [/bad Men's Health joke]