SJ.COM All-purpose dating thread

But ... but ... it worked for Ross and Rachel!!!

Seriously, time needs to pass and wounds need to heal.

The only ex with whom I am in contact is back in Halifax with his wife and kid.

We e-chat every once in a while but that's it. And that took 15 years to happen.

 

http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/tor/763102764.html

 

What, Girlfriend A and Girlfriend B aren't available? [/crossthread]

 

I always remain friendly with ex-girlfriends.
I'm an excellent breaker-upper, and I don't think I could be with somneone who didn't break up well.
Breaking up is one of the most important parts of a relationship.

 

That's kind of depressing.

 

I can see why he would feel that way. Show's what kind of person you are by the way you breakup with someone.

 

I'm always the person being broken up with, never the break-ee.

 

Ditto. Don't feel bad.

 

It kinda sucks, but I could never bring myself to do that to a person.

Guess I'm too nice.

 

Buckdub is correct. No matter how nice a guy you think you are, there's some woman out there who will make you want to drop her like an angry cat.

 

Well, there was my most recent ex, but she beat me to the punch.