Top-five things chicks don't get about us

YankeeFan · Jul 27, 2011

I think sexuality is a pretty big part of who we are.

To just shut it down isn't natural. You're turning off a portion of yourself.

I don't mean to mock you or insult you, but if there is a God -- and I think there probably is -- I don't think he'd want you to live like that.

It's a gift from God.

Isn't the message from this Parable that we're supposed to use our gifts (talents)?

13 “Therefore stay alert, because you do not know the day or the hour. 14 For it is like a man going on a journey, who summoned his slaves and entrusted his property to them. 15 To one he gave five talents, to another two, and to another one, each according to his ability. Then he went on his journey. 16 The one who had received five talents went off right away and put his money to work270 and gained five more. 17 In the same way, the one who had two gained two more. 18 But the one who had received one talent went out and dug a hole in the ground and hid his master’s money in it. 19 After a long time, the master of those slaves came and settled his accounts with them. 20 The one who had received the five talents came and brought five more, saying, ‘Sir, you entrusted me with five talents. See, I have gained five more.’ 21 His master answered, ‘Well done, good and faithful slave! You have been faithful in a few things. I will put you in charge of many things. Enter into the joy of your master.’ 22 The one with the two talents also came and said, ‘Sir, you entrusted two talents to me. See, I have gained two more.’ 23 His master answered, ‘Well done, good and faithful slave! You have been faithful with a few things. I will put you in charge of many things. Enter into the joy of your master.’ 24 Then the one who had received the one talent came and said, ‘Sir, I knew that you were a hard man, harvesting where you did not sow, and gathering where you did not scatter seed, 25 so I was afraid, and I went and hid your talent in the ground. See, you have what is yours.’ 26 But his master answered, ‘Evil and lazy slave! So you knew that I harvest where I didn’t sow and gather where I didn’t scatter? 27 Then you should have deposited my money with the bankers, and on my return I would have received my money back with interest! 28 Therefore take the talent from him and give it to the one who has ten. 29 For the one who has will be given more, and he will have more than enough. But the one who does not have, even what he has will be taken from him. 30 And throw that worthless slave into the outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth’” (Matthew 25:13-30).
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I'm not saying to indulge in meaningless, one night stands. But as part of a committed, monogamous relationship? I don't have a problem with it.

In a sex ed class when I was in junior high, our Principal, a Christian Brother (I know, right) put it this way:

If you're going to have sex with someone, it should be with someone you have a past, a present, and a future with.

I thought that was a pretty good way of saying it.

Oggiedoggie · Jul 27, 2011

I'll have to get my wife to explain to me how a thread can drift so far off topic.

That is, if she can take a break from trying to understand why guys like to fart loudly.

NightHawk112005 · Jul 27, 2011

YankeeFan said:

I think sexuality is a pretty big part of who we are.

To just shut it down isn't natural. You're turning off a portion of yourself.

I don't mean to mock you or insult you, but if there is a God -- and I think there probably is -- I don't think he'd want you to live like that.

It's a gift from God.

Isn't the message from this Parable that we're supposed to use our gifts (talents)?

13 “Therefore stay alert, because you do not know the day or the hour. 14 For it is like a man going on a journey, who summoned his slaves and entrusted his property to them. 15 To one he gave five talents, to another two, and to another one, each according to his ability. Then he went on his journey. 16 The one who had received five talents went off right away and put his money to work270 and gained five more. 17 In the same way, the one who had two gained two more. 18 But the one who had received one talent went out and dug a hole in the ground and hid his master’s money in it. 19 After a long time, the master of those slaves came and settled his accounts with them. 20 The one who had received the five talents came and brought five more, saying, ‘Sir, you entrusted me with five talents. See, I have gained five more.’ 21 His master answered, ‘Well done, good and faithful slave! You have been faithful in a few things. I will put you in charge of many things. Enter into the joy of your master.’ 22 The one with the two talents also came and said, ‘Sir, you entrusted two talents to me. See, I have gained two more.’ 23 His master answered, ‘Well done, good and faithful slave! You have been faithful with a few things. I will put you in charge of many things. Enter into the joy of your master.’ 24 Then the one who had received the one talent came and said, ‘Sir, I knew that you were a hard man, harvesting where you did not sow, and gathering where you did not scatter seed, 25 so I was afraid, and I went and hid your talent in the ground. See, you have what is yours.’ 26 But his master answered, ‘Evil and lazy slave! So you knew that I harvest where I didn’t sow and gather where I didn’t scatter? 27 Then you should have deposited my money with the bankers, and on my return I would have received my money back with interest! 28 Therefore take the talent from him and give it to the one who has ten. 29 For the one who has will be given more, and he will have more than enough. But the one who does not have, even what he has will be taken from him. 30 And throw that worthless slave into the outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth’” (Matthew 25:13-30).
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I'm not saying to indulge in meaningless, one night stands. But as part of a committed, monogamous relationship? I don't have a problem with it.

In a sex ed class when I was in junior high, our Principal, a Christian Brother (I know, right) put it this way:

If you're going to have sex with someone, it should be with someone you have a past, a present, and a future with.

I thought that was a pretty good way of saying it.
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The Bible also says: Thou shalt not commit adultery.

YankeeFan · Jul 27, 2011

NightHawk112005 said:

The Bible also says: Thou shalt not commit adultery.
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Eh, Old Testament.

New Covenant and all that.

I don't want you to do anything you think would put your Soul at risk, but you should talk to some more liberal Priests. Maybe one of them will help you square it.

NightHawk112005 · Jul 27, 2011

YankeeFan said:

NightHawk112005 said:

The Bible also says: Thou shalt not commit adultery.
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Eh, Old Testament.

New Covenant and all that.

I don't want you to do anything you think would put your Soul at risk, but you should talk to some more liberal Priests. Maybe one of them will help you square it.
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I'm pretty conservative, so I'd probably disagree with them. I have never had any interest in sex before marriage and never will, so there really isn't anything to square. I'm happy with my decision.

NightHawk112005 · Jul 27, 2011

Oggiedoggie said:

I'll have to get my wife to explain to me how a thread can drift so far off topic.

That is, if she can take a break from trying to understand why guys like to fart loudly.
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Because I noticed the wrong thing. I could have said how I don't think farting will ever be funny, but went a different direction. Blame me.

spikechiquet · Jul 27, 2011

Let's get this ship back on course...
I don't understand why she only likes (to get) oral sex...
and why the smell of semen makes her gag...

Kinda limits those "pop shots" every guy like to do.

Discuss

Dyno · Jul 27, 2011

I think Nighthawk just gouged his eyes out.

spikechiquet · Jul 27, 2011

Dyno said:

I think Nighthawk just gouged his eyes out.
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Hey...it's within the boundries of holy matrimony...

God-sanctioned oral and pop shots, n'stuff...

bydesign77 · Jul 27, 2011

On the catholic thing, we had to, I guess commit?, to having children when we got married. Though it's turned out we can't so we're not.

The latest argument is the separation of clothes into whites, darks and colors. She even bought hampers with labels to help. I still won't do it.

joe · Jul 27, 2011

JC said:

NightHawk112005 said:

Care Bear said:

Buck said:

The Catholic Church's stance is that sex is the means for procreation and that one cannot remove the potential for procreation when having sex.
However, I'm not familiar with any doctrine or dogma that requires a married couple to pursue procreation.
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This was my thought, as well.
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Well, I'm certainly not going to not have sex AFTER marriage too. That would hardly be fair to a potential wife.
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NightHawk112005 said:

Care Bear said:

Buck said:

The Catholic Church's stance is that sex is the means for procreation and that one cannot remove the potential for procreation when having sex.
However, I'm not familiar with any doctrine or dogma that requires a married couple to pursue procreation.
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This was my thought, as well.
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Well, I'm certainly not going to not have sex AFTER marriage too. That would hardly be fair to a potential wife.
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there are things you can do to prevent having children and let you still have sex.
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Yeah, and from what TV tells me, the kids today don't consider anal or oral to be real sex anyway. So, party on.

NightHawk112005 · Jul 27, 2011

joe said:

JC said:

NightHawk112005 said:

Care Bear said:

Buck said:

The Catholic Church's stance is that sex is the means for procreation and that one cannot remove the potential for procreation when having sex.
However, I'm not familiar with any doctrine or dogma that requires a married couple to pursue procreation.
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This was my thought, as well.
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Well, I'm certainly not going to not have sex AFTER marriage too. That would hardly be fair to a potential wife.
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NightHawk112005 said:

Care Bear said:

Buck said:

The Catholic Church's stance is that sex is the means for procreation and that one cannot remove the potential for procreation when having sex.
However, I'm not familiar with any doctrine or dogma that requires a married couple to pursue procreation.
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This was my thought, as well.
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Well, I'm certainly not going to not have sex AFTER marriage too. That would hardly be fair to a potential wife.
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there are things you can do to prevent having children and let you still have sex.
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Yeah, and from what TV tells me, the kids today don't consider anal or oral to be real sex anyway. So, party on.
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This one does. Won't do those either.

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