Top-five things chicks don't get about us

OK, might as well give you all another reason to mock me. Fat women.

 

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I kid because I care... ;D

 

I'm honestly not trying to mock you and I'm sorry if it comes across that way. I'm just amazed at your beliefs and am really curious about this.

If you would dump a woman at the mere idea of her wanting to have sex with you, what could possibly turn you on to the point of masturbating?

Seems odd to me. That's all.

 

I'm a riddle wrapped in an enigma. I can and do find certain women attractive, as I specified earlier in this topic. In that one incident, it wasn't that she wanted sex on its own that caused me to end things. It was that she still did that after I'd made it clear to her that sex was not going to happen. Had she done that with no prior knowledge, it would certainly not have been a dealbreaker. Because she did have prior knowledge, it said to me that if she had no respect for one of my most sacred beliefs, she wouldn't respect me in other ways.

I'm not immune to urges, but I am strong enough to master them because I know what I want, and more importantly, I know what I don't want. The sin of adultery, along with the possibility of a child I don't want, are enough to outweigh any benefits that could come from any sexual action.

 

heh heh he said master.

 

Kind of hard to define.

If I had to put myself in one of these two categories, I'm not sure which one I'd pick.

I'm not exactly practicing, but I'm not sure I'd define myself as lapsed either.

 

It is funny that the Catholic church is so specific about what is a sin or not. Everyone sins, so why make so many dumb rules about it?

A church that tells you you can't use a condom makes big money on picnics where the main attractions are beer and gambling.

Weird.

 

All I can say is, selective memory is a powerful force. We'd be borderline insane without it.

Happiest time for almost every parent is before their kid is born and after they leave the house.

http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1202940,00.html

 

Good on Nighthawk for sticking to his guns.

But those who say you wouldn't want kids because there are so many screwed-up parents in the world, I assume you don't drive a car because there are so many lousy drivers in the world.

 

In one paragraph, you made me laugh and then nearly cry.

Well done.

 

NH - I applaud your ability to stick to your convictions. But speaking as someone about 20 years older than you, who also never wanted to get married or have kids, I urge you to think ahead and make sure this is really what you want to do. Seriously think about who is going to help take care of you when you get old. I mean it - seriously think about whether you have people in your life who will be there long-term and will be there for you as you age. This is what keeps me up at night more and more the older I get.