I was 5 and I was in afternoon kindergarten.
My dad had been home for lunch and returned downtown to his job on the news desk of the Starrville Daily Screech.
Not too long after dad went back to work, my mom got me dressed for school, and walked me around the block to my elementary school maybe 100 yards from our house. My mom was pushing my sister, just barely 2, along in a stroller. She dropped me off at the front door and went home.
I got to school and got busy reading TIME magazine or something, while the other kids were chewing on their crayons or whatever.
Fairly quickly there was a knock at the classroom door and the teacher went to answer it.
It was my mom. She stepped into the classroom and whispered something in the ear of the teacher, who seemed visibly shocked, she said "oh my god" or something very similar.
My mom stepped over to me and said, "we're going home," took me by the hand and walked out. The teacher said, "OK."
We started walking home and I was asking my mom, "what's going on, why are we going home?" She didn't have many answers. "I don't know what's happening, but we have to go home," she said.
We arrived home and walked in; as I recall the TV was already running. Walter Cronkite was talking about something happening in Texas, which I understood was where the cowboys lived.
No details other apparently somebody had taken some shots at the motorcade.
As an Irish Catholic family in the early 60s, of course I knew exactly who JFK was.
My parents sort of vaguely resembled JFK/Jackie -- tall rangy Irish red haired husband and dark/black-haired mother, so I thought it was the natural order of things. With my dad working as a news editor and my mother also being a former daily newspaper editor, they discussed the news all day, every day.
Every morning at lunchtime my dad came home with the noonday edition they had sent to press at 10:45 am; after lunch he'd go back for the afternoon reroll that went to press at 2:45 pm and was the final edition that got delivered to all the home customers.
Every night Walter Cronkite came on about dinner time at 6.30.
I learned to read sometime around the age of 2 1/2, so every day I read two editions of the Daily Screech, so as a result I was probably one of the very very few 4 year olds in the US in October 1962 who understood the basic details of what the Cuban Missile Crisis was about.
Anyway as soon as we got home Walter delivered the details as available at the moment:
-- Shots fired at the JFK motorcade, witnesses reported people injured
-- Motorcade speeds directly to hospital
-- He was hinting the situation was very serious. He was mentioning various reports that JFK was dead, but reiterating that was unconfirmed. My mom, as a reporter, explained the difference to me: "they cannot state that as a fact unless they get absolute proof. Otherwise you get people spreading crazy rumors."
-- Shortly thereafter, Walter delivered the word: "The flash, apparently official ..."
The phone rang within 10 minutes or so. It was dad, telling mom he'd probably be very late that night (he was).
I remember my mom -- both parents, actually -- was in a stunned daze most of that weekend. The previous October with the Missile Crisis my parents had discussed, if some kind of war started, was there anyplace we could go?
The answer, really, was no; both my grandparents' houses were in or near major manufacturing cities; they talked for a minute about running off to my grandma's cottage up north, before realizing it was about 10 miles from an Air Force base. So there was really nowhere to run; I think she realized it.