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One charge of second-degree manslaughter and another charge of criminally negligent homicide.
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Hell of a story. Great read, thanks.
It's OK to write that story anyway. It was painfully obvious that Neely turned into a fork-up.To start, Lisa Miller is good. ... although I felt like she belabored some parts of the story. That said, you don't see enough profiles like that anymore. It felt like it was from years ago, not today.
On Neely. ...
He punched a woman in the face in a deli (less than a year after he punched a man in the face @ the W. 4th Street station). He was mentally ill.
My question, when he was given the "Alternative to Incarceration" treatment and sentenced to Harbor House with a warning to see it through and he said and did all the right things in court, but then he skipped out after less than 2 weeks. ... there is a long description of what he really needed and didn't get that seemed to absolve him. ... when what I saw as a choice he made. Was he ever responsible for anything he did, and the consequences of his own decisions?
I am not minimizing just how shitty an upbringing he had and how difficult his life was. His story is tragic. But the fault of that piece is that like a lot of things that start out sympathetic to Neely, it wants to make him so sympathetic and do the "the system failed him" thing that it subtly dismisses his bad decisions that it actually outlines with a line or two, while taking pains to paint descriptions of a variety of mitigating circumstances each step of the way.
For example, he had a long rap sheet, but it was only from his early days as a dancer for turnstile jumping, littering, and moving between cars. I get that turnstile jumping is not on par with the felonies he graduated to, but when you are getting arrested and just keep doing it, is it a systemic failure or is it simply you making the choice to be that guy?
What pushed him into his steep decline was K2. Did someone else make the choice to fork around with that stuff for him? Whatever it did to him, could it also be characterized as a tragic consequence of bad decisions (likely without understanding just how bad) he actually had made for himself ?
That profile wasn't the worst offender I have seen, but so many people want to use Neely (and Penny) to try to paint unnuanced narratives. Neely certainly lived a shitty life that was stacked against him from early on. ... but what got him to that point on that train was not pure victimization. He had to have played a substantial role in his own life too, same as we all bare responsibility for ourselves. It's OK to simply acknowledge some very serious shades of gray around the Neely / Penny story.
when what I saw as a choice he made. Was he ever responsible for anything he did, and the consequences of his own decisions?
How good is the "decision making" of a drug-addled schizophrenic?
How good is the "decision making" of a drug-addled schizophrenic?
Again, if you want to insist that Neely is a helpless victim who had no hand whatsoever in his own life, that is what you are going to see.