Interesting read. I agree with many things, disagree with others.
Again, 65-year-old retired white male here. Your mileage varies.
A college degree is important for multiple reasons, but only if the cost of one is outweighed by the financial gain or improvement in lifestyle. If you're going to school just because everybody else is, or you don't really know what you're going to do with it once you graduate, then you're probably wasting time and money.
Ninety percent of all majors are useless. If you're not in STEM, the medical field or something else with growth potential, you're probably not going to do better than your parents by paying off student loans the rest of your life. Unless a degree moves you out of Inglewood and allows you to improve your living conditions.
Yes, a college degree for a woman is an advantage. But women have a societial obligation forced upon them that men do not -- start a career, get married and raise a family. You can have a career but get nagged about why you don't have children. Or be a mother but nagged about why you don't have a career. Or do both and basically kill yourself.
And a college degree for a men is an advantage, but only if you graduate in something that's in current demand. However, that target is constantly moving. You can still make a living with a media communications degree, but you'd better be flexible, mobile and tech savvy because what we traditionally thought of as "flacking out" may be the best gig available if you're social media coordinator or in-house rep for a Fortune 500 company.
If you're dreaming about being a columnist or writer or a talk show host, you'd better have great connections or a fallback option.
The "being a boy is a disadvantage" is the biggest bunch of crap. Smart doesn't come with a gender reveal. If you're male and aren't willing to take responsibility for yourself (sit still, shut up, listen, do the work), that's on you, not the system.
How far do you think you could get away with that in the military? That's about the most "boy thing" I can think of. More than a few drill instructors have gotten "boys" to behave over the decades, at least while in uniform.
And 98 percent of all 17 year olds have no clue what they want to do.